Relationship Coaching for You and Your Horse.

Personal coaching to help you build a flourishing relationship with your horse.


Do you feel like you're lacking meaning and connection with your horse? 

Have you tried this method and that trainer, but still struggle to find what feels right for you and your horse?

Do you feel like everyone else is way further ahead with their horses than you are?

Do you feel frustrated and anxious with your horse?

It doesn't have to be this way.

You can build the relationship that you're dreaming of with your horse. You're in the right place.

Because the partnership of your dreams begins with YOU.


About Elaine

There is nothing I love more than helping people like you create a meaningful relationship with your horse. I am a Positive Psychology practitioner, a certified HeartMath Coach, and born horse enthusiast. I am not naturally gifted with horses. It's something that I've had to work for. And while I'd love to show you how it's done, I don't want you to copy me. I want to help you find your own way. A way that fits for YOU.
This isn't about me. It's about you.



One-on-one coaching to help you build a partnership with your horse that is meaningful and satisfying to YOU.

Equine Relationship Coaching

It's like couple's therapy for you and your horse!

Discover the 7 science-based inner skills to build your relationship the way YOU want it so that it is meaningful and satisfying to you and your horse. 

  • less anxiety and frustration, and more calm connection (for both of you)

  • build a partnership that is meaningful to you (rather than doing whatever you're told to do)

  • identify and break through what's holding you back from your goals

  • uncover and build on your strengths

  • bounce back from any challenge or adversity that comes your way

  • set goals that matter (and actually achieve them)

  • create a deep soul connection with your horse


The Enneagram for Horse People

Who you are affects your partnership with your horse. In this 2 part coaching program, you'll discover and explore your unique personality type, as well as how it is affecting you and your horse.

  • discover what 'makes you tick' 

  • get out of your own way

  • stop feeling inadequate or different

  • take charge of your life (in and outside the barn)

  • strengthen your relationships with others (and your horse, of course)

  • be a better friend (to both your 2- and 4-legged friends)


Positive Psychology for Equine Professionals

This program is designed for equine professionals, veterinarians, trainers, coaches, equine-partnered therapists, riding instructors, or any other equine professional who helps horses and their people.

You are good at helping horses. But sometimes it's the human partner who needs the guidance. Would you like to build positive psychology into your practice so that you have the words to say and the tools to use to help your human clients:

  • regulate their emotions to be more calm

  • identify and live by their values to get their priorities straight

  • increase their acceptance of themselves and their horse

  • identify and build on their strengths

  • build their resilience to manage difficult situations

  • create positive relationships with other humans and horses

  • set goals that are realistic and achievable

Get the training you need so that your human clients can carry forward all the hard work you've put into their horse.

Riding Lessons

Happy Horse Owners

Here’s What They’re Saying

After many training DVD's and online connection courses I felt there was still a missing piece. Elaine's Equine Relationship Coaching provided that elusive piece. I now have that true heart to heart connection I so sought after. Thank You.

Sharon Yeagle DMV

After applying what I learned from Elaine, my horse started responding faster and becoming more willing to do the things I asked, when previously she may have refused. She also started to relax more, which is big for her since she tends to be a nervous mare. Elaine is easy to talk with and is able to explain things in a way that makes sense and gives you steps that you can take right away to make progress with your horse. She isn't offering you a new technique to try, she offers you a new way of being, that goes deeper than any technique to take your relationship with your horse to a whole new level. I will continue to work with Elaine and I’ll definitely be recommending her to my clients!

Bethany Tuskey - Liberty and Dressage Instructor at Tuskey Dressage

I love your message and I firmly believe it could help so many horses live a much happier life with humans that have more compassion and softness. Thank you for what you do, it matters!


As a scientist before I had horses in my life, I loved listening to, learning, and recognising the science behind being with my horses in a coherent partnership.